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A Gyokku Ninjutsu Master teaches a philosophy for controlling lust

"Master, could Gyokku Ninjutsu philosophy give me a way of controlling lust?
I find it disturbing that I cannot control my sexual desires.
Can you tell me how to control lust?"

Kamiko Kimura - ninjutsu meditation specialist, ninja mind control, ninja covert stealth operations, ninja sniper

Regarding lust, it is all in the state of mind, brother.

There is nothing wrong with sex, and sexual desires.

Therefore, 'controlling lust' is not really necessary. However, there is a difference between normal desires, and desires that are bloated out of all proportion. There are certain simple mental attitudes that one should adopt...

Firstly, make sure that your sexual attraction for another person
moves beyond the physical.

Seek for interests in common, a similar attitude to life, that sort of thing. This makes the object of your desire a person, not a thing. It also makes you more than an animal.

It also creates a very close bond with the person you have sex with, and a lot of harmony. And if you have this bond and this harmony with someone, by all means have as much sex as you want. There is nothing wrong with it. I will even tell you a secret - much sex of this harmonious sort actually keeps a man or a woman physically young for a long, long time - well past what people think of as middle age. So desire is actually good and beneficial, so long as it originates in the mind as well as in the body.

...THIS LESSON IN PHILOSOPHY CONTINUES AFTER THE MESSAGE BELOW...

Now we discuss desires bloated out of all proportion.

You don't need a Gyokku Ninja Master to tell you to avoid too much pornography. It is just images and videos. Use it if you don't have a partner, but not too much, and get a partner as fast as possible. Don't amuse yourself with images and videos when you can be having sex with a real partner. This is the BEST way to control lust - to give it a natural, healthy outlet - that is to say, to actually have sex. Avoid sadism, or anything too perverted - this is a dark path, and once you start down upon it, it will control you forever, and perhaps destroy you.

Here is a simple philosophy - Treat sex as you treat food.

Do you ever think - 'From now on, I will not eat?' Of course not.

At the same time, you don't eat so much that you become completely obese. Sex is another similar need. Find partners, have lots of healthy sex. More than that is really not necessary for a man, or woman, to be happy.

I trust this answers your question, brother.

Ninja Yawara Kongou Vajra